You and your ex-partner can apply for property settlement or maintenance orders in the family court if you were married or in a de facto relationship.
If you were not married or in a de facto relationship, you may still be able to apply for property orders if you can show you were in a close personal relationship. This uses a different process under NSW law.
For more information, see Who can make a property or maintenance agreement.
If you and your ex-partner can’t agree about how to divide your assets, you usually need to take some steps to try to settle your dispute before you apply to the court for property settlement orders. These steps are called pre-action procedures. They include:
You must follow these steps if:
You must follow these steps unless an exemption applies.
While you go through these steps, the court expects you to act reasonably and responsibly.
You should think about:
You must not:
You don’t have to follow the pre-action procedures if you and your ex-partner are negotiating a binding financial agreement.
For more information, see Property settlement agreements.
If you and your ex-partner are following the pre-action procedures, you must also share financial information and documents. This is called financial disclosure.
You must share all documents and information that are relevant to the issues in your case.
You must also share all documents and information that show your full financial situation.
This still applies even if you or your ex-partner are bankrupt.
You must start doing this when you begin the pre-action procedures and continue until your case is finalised.
For more information, see Financial disclosure in property cases.
If it is safe, you and your ex-partner must:
For more information, see Family law mediation.
If you reach an agreement at mediation, you should put it in writing.
For more information, see Property settlement agreements.
You and your ex-partner usually need to follow the pre-action procedures before you apply for property settlement orders. You may not need to follow them if:
Even if you do not have to follow the pre-action procedures because you or your ex-partner are bankrupt, you should still make a real effort to resolve the dispute before applying to the court for property settlement orders. For more information, see Bankruptcy and property settlements.
You are not expected to follow the pre-action procedures if:
A notice of intention is a letter that says you will apply to the court for property settlement orders if you cannot settle your dispute.
Before you apply for property settlement orders, you must send your ex-partner a written notice of intention if:
Your notice of intention must include:
For an example of a notice of intention you can send to your ex-partner, see our Sample: Notice of intention - property settlements (PDF, 176KB).
If you get a notice of intention from your ex-partner, you must reply in writing within the time given, which is usually 14 days, and say whether you accept their offer.
If you accept their offer of settlement, you should put your agreement into writing. For more information, see Property settlement agreements.
For an example of a letter you can send to your ex-partner to accept the offer in their notice of intention, see our Sample: Offer acceptance letter - property settlements (PDF, 88KB).
If you do not accept the offer, you must send a letter that explains:
Get legal advice if you are not sure how to respond, or whether you should respond, to a notice of intention from your ex-partner.
For an example of a letter you can send to your ex-partner with your counteroffer, see our Sample: Response to notice of intention - property settlements (PDF, 140KB).
You and your ex-partner must follow the pre-action procedures before you apply for property settlement orders, unless an exemption applies.
The court may decide you have not followed the procedures if you do not:
If you do not follow the procedures, the court may stay (pause) your case until you do. The court may also order you to pay your ex-partners legal costs.
For more information, see Costs in property and maintenance cases.
Get legal advice if you are not sure whether you have followed the pre-action procedures.
Last updated: May 2026
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