Respond to an Application for divorce

Information about how to respond to an Application for divorce.

How to respond

If you have been served with an Application for divorce you can:

  • send back the Acknowledgement of service (divorce), or
  • file a Response to Divorce. 

To respond to an Application for divorce you must file a Response to Divorce. 

If you agree with your spouse’s Application for divorce, you don’t have to do anything. However, you should send back the Acknowledgement of service (divorce) so the court knows you received the application.

If you don’t agree with your spouse’s application, you can file a Response to Divorce. You can do this if you want to:

  • oppose your spouse’s Application for divorce, or
  • correct any errors or dispute any facts contained in your spouse’s Application for divorce - you can do this even if you want the court to grant a divorce.

If you file a Response to Divorce and oppose the divorce, you must attend the hearing.

You can download a copy of this form from the Family law forms page on the Federal Circuit and Family Court of Australia website. 

You will need to include the following information in your response:

  • your full name and your spouse’s full name
  • your address for service
  • the orders you are seeking
  • the reasons you:
    • want the divorce application dismissed, or 
    • disagree with the facts in the Application for divorce. 

If you need help to file a Response to Divorce, you should get legal advice.

Oppose the application

You can oppose a divorce application if you:

  1. have not been separated for the minimum 12 month period, or
  2. the court does not have jurisdiction to hear the application, for example, you are not legally married or you are not an Australian citizen and you don't ordinarily live in Australia.  

To do this:

  • say ‘Yes’ to question 5 on the Response to Divorce, and
  • write your reasons for opposing the application at question 6.

If the court finds that either of these grounds exist, it will dismiss or adjourn the application. 

For instructions on how to complete this form and an example of a completed form, see:

If you dispute any of the facts set out in the Application for divorce, but don’t oppose the divorce, you can file and serve an Affidavit setting out the facts in dispute. You must do this at least seven days before the hearing date. If you file an Affidavit, you should go to court for the hearing

Correct errors or dispute facts in the application

To correct any errors or dispute the facts in the divorce application:

  • say ‘No’ to question 5 on the Response to Divorce,
  • say ‘Yes’ to question 7, and
  • list the errors or state the facts that you disagree with at question 7.    

You can do this even if you want the court to grant a divorce. 

For instructions on how to complete this form and an example of a completed form, see:

Don’t sign your Response to Divorce until you are ready to have it witnessed. 

If you file a Response to Divorce and oppose the divorce, you must attend the hearing.

Sign and file your response

Once you have completed your Response to Divorce, you must have it witnessed by an authorised person (Justice of the Peace or lawyer). 

You can file your Response to Divorce online via the Commonwealth Courts Portal or in person at a court registry.

You don’t have to pay a fee to file your Response to Divorce. 

When you file your response, it will be stamped with the courts seal and returned to you so that you can serve it on your spouse.

Serve your spouse

You must serve your Response to Divorce on your spouse within 28 days of being served with the Application for divorce. If you were served overseas, you must serve your response within 42 days of being served the Application for divorce. 

You can do this by:

  • delivering your response to their home address
  • sending it by registered post
  • fax
  • email – if email address provided in address for service
  • sending it to your spouse’s lawyer – if their lawyer has agreed to accept service. 

You don’t need to serve your spouse by hand, but you can if you want to.

After you have served your spouse, you need to prepare for your divorce hearing so you can tell the court about your response and answer the court’s questions.

For more information, see Preparing for the hearing.

Serve your spouse overseas

If your spouse is overseas, there is a different process you must follow to serve them with your response. For more information about how to serve your spouse overseas, see Serving a legal document across international borders on the Attorney-General’s Department website.

Case study

Femke and Hendrick separated after 13 years of marriage. They separated five months ago. After their separation, Hendrick moved out of the family home and Femke stayed in the family home with their two children.

Femke has now applied for a divorce. She served him with a copy of her divorce application by giving it to him when she picked up the children from his house.

Hendrick has grounds to file a response opposing Femke’s application because they haven’t met the minimum 12-month separation period. He could also notify the court that Femke didn’t follow the rules for serving a divorce application as Femke should have arranged for someone else, above the age of 18, to serve him.

If Hendrick files a response, he will have to serve Femke within 28 days of her serving him. They will both have to attend the hearing. This will be by telephone or video link, unless they are told to attend court in person.

At the hearing, the court will determine whether Femke and Hendrick meet the criteria to be granted a divorce order. One of these criteria is the 12-month minimum separation period. Another is that Femke has followed the rules for service.

If the court finds that they haven’t been separated for at least 12 months, it will dismiss Femke’s application. The court can also dismiss Femke’s application for not serving Hendrick correctly. If this was the only issue with Femke’s application, the court could have adjourned the case and ordered her to serve him correctly instead.

Even though they can’t apply for a divorce yet, Femke and Hendrick can negotiate a property settlement. They both want to reach an agreement and apply for property settlement consent orders. This is something they should prioritise over getting a divorce as once they are divorced, they will only have one year from the date their divorce order comes into effect to apply for property orders.

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